Men who are abused tend to go on to be abusers; while women who are abused tend
to continue to find themselves in abusive relationships. That's the cycle of
abuse. Certainly people break this and it mostly happens through the will to
change. Castration -- either surgical or chemical -- hasn't proven to help --
the abuse doesn't stop because it isn't sexual it's about power.
So again it's
brought back to the desire to make change on the part of the abuser. I hope