Co-Creating the World We
By Carla Goldstein, co-founder Omega
Women's Leadership Center
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Our new column, Spiritual Activism, examines
a growing approach to social justice activism – one that provides
a holistic, relationship-based framework for working for change.
For decades I have considered myself a women’s rights and social
justice activist. The word “spiritual” wasn’t in my vocabulary,
and I still trip on it. The public often labels a “spiritual” person
as either rigidly religious or involved in occult hocus-pocus.
I didn’t think of myself as either. As a young boomer I learned
about activism from the civil rights movement, the women’s movement,
and the anti-war movement—all groups that had to fight for power
and rights. I carried that model into my own life as a lawyer and
professional advocate, learning to trace a social problem to its
source, which always had at its center a villain—a political party,
a corporation, an ideology. To me, activism meant organizing with
others to fight the villains to fix the problem, the operative
word being “fight.”
After almost a decade of fighting for reproductive freedom in
the pro-choice movement, I realized that approaching our social
disagreements through extreme polarization and name-calling was
not a winning strategy. As my activist frustration and sense of
ineffectiveness grew, I began to search for another way. Then,
at age 41, I was diagnosed with early stage breast cancer. I had
to dig into resources I didn’t know were there—my own and those
around me. In my two years of grappling with diagnosis, treatment,
and recovery, I discovered the incredible power of love. It started
to show up everywhere: in the pharmacy, at the grocery, in the
parking lot; wherever there were people, there was support. I told
my friends that one shouldn’t have to get cancer to make the amazing
discovery that the world really does run on love. The combination
of my battle fatigue as a pro-choice activist and my journey with
breast cancer led me to reevaluate how viewed I activism.
What I came to deeply understand (though I had known it all along)
is that relationships are central to everything and really matter.
Process matters. While an adversarial approach can often be effective
in the short-term, in the long-term, we are perpetuating that which
we are fighting against. When we are purely adversarial, the very
mechanism we use to bring about more peace, compassion and justice,
ends up creating the byproduct of fear, insecurity and anger. While
the fighting model served an important historic purpose and may
still be necessary in some circumstances, we need a new transformational
framework that evolves beyond the ancient cycle of anger and war.
The possibility for real change is one of the potent legacies
of the sixties, which created groundbreaking social and economic
liberation for millions of people. For almost half a century we
have been building consciousness, psychological understanding of
the self and others, material wealth, and technological tools that
can now be used to dramatically shift the way people relate to
each other. We have created the insight and human skills to allow
for grace, forgiveness, generosity, healing, respect, and appreciation
for diversity; all the things necessary to allow us to cool anger,
cultivate compassion, and create better methods of taking care
of one another.
Spiritual activism is based on the holistic understanding that
we live in an interdependent world where the parts and the whole
are in dynamic relationship to each other. The old mechanistic
Newtonian view of the world that allowed us to isolate and identify
the first spark in a linear chain of cause and effect is replaced
by the view that there are an infinite number of complex, chaotic,
and sometimes mysterious interrelated causes and effects that shape
our world. As “people parts,” we are both cause and effect of things
seen and unseen, imagined and unimagined, all in a circular relational
loop. No action is too remote or inconsequential to matter to the
greater whole. Therefore, everything we do matters to everyone
and everything else and vice versa!
This emerging model of activism incorporates the valuable aspects
of the old framework and grows beyond it in several important ways.
While the old model relied on creating legal and economic rules
as the primary mechanism for liberation, the new model asserts
that more is needed. Below is a list of emerging principles in
this new model of spiritual activism.
1. AWARENESS, COMPASSION AND LOVE
We take action that is born out of awareness, compassion and love,
not out of reaction, fear and anger.
We see relationships to others and the world in the context of
our interdependence. We no longer see the “enemy” or “other”
as isolated from ourselves. This does not strip away our ability
to recognize and name injustice, but helps us understand that
the root of both suffering and joy ultimately circles back to
us because of our unity as a whole organism.
We use power to empower others rather than to dominate over others.
4. THE MEANS MATTERS
We bring the intention of love and compassion equally to the means
and the ends, understanding that relationships are central to
5. MINDFULNESS AND PRESENCE
We cultivate mindfulness and the capacity to be present for others
so that our relationships and actions are coming from intention
6. PARADOX & MYSTERY
We accept paradox and mystery, which allows us to see that the
truth can be ambiguous, complex, contradictory or unknowable.
This, in turn, relieves us from the need to always classify into
either/or, right and wrong.
7. SEEKING BALANCE
We seek balance in our lives to bring healing to self and others;
balance between our inner and outer lives, and between our mind,
body, heart, and spirit.
8. OPEN TO SUFFERING
We open our hearts to suffering rather than isolate ourselves from
it so that we can cultivate self-understanding, empathy with
others, and benefit from the wisdom that we gain from seeing
reality as it is.
9. BEYOND PROXIMATE CAUSE
We take responsibility for our actions and assume a duty to others
that stretches beyond our capacity to anticipate consequences.
10. LIVING OUR VALUES
We live from our values consistently across all of our social roles,
including in both the private and public sphere of our lives.
Spiritual activism provides an integrative framework for daily
living that allows us to bring our unique gifts into our shared
journey. By developing daily practices that increase our ability
to be more compassionate and loving, we can help co-create a world
that brings us out of the cycle of competition and war and into
a new age of cooperation and peace.
Carla Goldstein, J.D., is Omega Institute's chief external affairs officer and cofounder of the Omega Women’s Leadership Center. An attorney with 25 years of experience in public interest advocacy, she has contributed to more than 100 city, state, and federal laws, and has worked extensively in city and state government on issues related to women’s rights, poverty, public health, and social justice. She is a commentator for WAMC’s show, 51%, writes a column and serves on the advisory board for Feminist.com, and serves as advisor to Women Without Borders.
Before joining Omega, Carla Goldstein was vice president for public affairs at Planned Parenthood of New York City (PPNYC), where she directed the agency’s advocacy and strategic communications work. Before joining PPNYC, Goldstein worked for the speaker of the New York City Council, where she helped craft and advocate for state and federal legislative agendas. While in law school at the State University of New York at Buffalo, she was cofounding editor-in-chief of the state’s first women’s law journal, the Buffalo Women’s Journal (now published as Buffalo Journal of Gender, Law, and Social Policy). Goldstein has also been featured at the New York State Bar Association’s “Women on the Move: Successful Women in the Know”.
Goldstein was an adjunct professor at CUNY Queens College for eight years, where she taught a course called Law and Social Justice, which was designed to empower students to be effective advocates for progressive social change. She now teaches a variety of workshops at Omega, including Omega’s Women & Power conferences and retreats, which inspire thousands of women from around the world. Carla Goldstein also appears regularly on local and national radio and television, and makes public presentations on issues related to women’s empowerment, holistic and sustainable living, activism, and spiritual activism.>
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