| While doing some research on Gloria Steinem, I
                              came across your website. Something has been bugging
                              me for some years now. I remember when the term
                              Ms. first became widely recognized in the late
                              60s and I recall that it was intended to replace
                              both Miss and Mrs. so that a woman's marital status
                              was not indicated as has always been the case for
                              men.                             
                             However, even today some 40 years on, I notice
                              that on most forms that require you to check a
                              form of address, I see Mr., Mrs., Miss and Ms.
                              This is totally against the original intent of
                              the use of Ms. I usually cross out the Miss and
                              Mrs. I have written letters to the editors of several
                              papers and I rant about this practice whenever
                              I can.                             
                             What else can I do??? Can your organization
                              launch or help to launch a huge public service
                              campaign to educate the general populace about
                              how to use proper forms of address? And don't fall
                              for that argument that courtesy requires us to
                              allow a woman to be addressed as Miss or Mrs. if
                              she prefers. That is nonsense. Language changes.
                              Once and for all, it is Mr. for a male and Ms.
                            for a female. Thank you.  |